White Noise
Let me tell you what I thought when I first heard the term 'white noise' in relation to babies. I imagined it would be a serene silence, so you can understand how surprised I was when I first heard what sounded like just noise.
So needless to say I needed to look up the definition and here is what I’ve found, but probably you already knew.
White noise is a steady, continuous sound that contains all audible frequencies played at roughly the same intensity. In everyday life, white noise often sounds like radio static, a waterfall, wind, or the hum of a fan. It’s not musical or rhythmic—it’s smooth and unchanging, which makes it useful for masking other sounds.
I didn’t know this was a thing for parents. Yes, that probably dates me. But when I first heard about it, I honestly couldn’t understand why so many moms and dads turned to white noise to soothe their children.
Friends explained, that parents use it helps create a calm, predictable environment for their children. The steady sound masks sudden household noises—like siblings playing, doors closing, or dishes clattering—that might startle a baby or wake a light sleeper. For many families, it becomes part of the bedtime routine, signaling to the child that it’s time to rest. Some parents also use it during naps or quiet playtime because it helps little ones settle faster and stay asleep longer.
But what I couldn’t shake off was this: if we use white noise from infancy and our children never really learn to be still, will they be able to be still when it’s actually needed? Or are we creating so much constant noise that retreating into silence feels uncomfortable, foreign, and maybe even scary?
Let that sink.
Be still, and know that I am God. (Psalm 46:10 NIV).
We live in a world that fills every quiet space with sound—music, TV, podcasts, background noise, and now even white noise. But if a baby is surrounded by constant sound from the very first days, won’t silence eventually feel unnatural?
Today's young people often struggle with silence. Many teenagers feel uneasy when the noise fades and there is no music, scrolling or constant input. Instead of providing rest, silence can make them feel restless or even anxious. Studies show that when teenagers are left alone without distractions, their bodies often remain alert rather than finding peace. It’s as if they have been conditioned to expect constant stimulation, and when it is absent, they do not know how to cope with the stillness. This discomfort with silence isn’t just about noise; it’s also about the deeper habit of avoiding reflection, emotion and presence.
Let’s talk about ourselves, how well do you handle silence? Do you reach for music, turn on the TV, or fill the room with noise the moment things get quiet? Do you feel uncomfortable with silence?
Stillness is where awareness grows. It’s where we, our children and teenagers begin to hear their own thoughts, to process emotions, and, eventually, to recognize the gentle voice of God.
I think back on my own life, and God rarely spoke to me in the middle of noise. It was in quiet moments—when I chose to seek Him and surrender—that I heard Him most. Yes, I sometimes play soft worship or instrumental worship, but I’ve learned there’s something precious in true quiet. Turning off every sound—even the good ones—brings me back to the basics: His presence.
I love being fully present and undistracted and maybe better said, I have learned to love it and embrace it fully. That’s why, six years ago, I chose to live without a phone. When I step outside, there’s no little black box pulling at my attention—no news to skim, no worship to stream, no podcast to fill the silence, no endless scrolling when I’m bored. Instead, I notice. I see nature and people. I feel what’s going on and pray. Whether I’m in the metro, a big city, or the countryside, there’s a precious simplicity I never want to lose.
In those moments, I hear the Holy Spirit more clearly. I can think, reflect, and let Him bring things to the surface. Again and again, I’ve found myself processing something important and experiencing breakthrough—right there in ordinary, everyday moments without distraction.
But I’m already seeing a growing inability to be undistracted—and many admit it scares them. They’re not used to being alone with their thoughts. In the quiet, accusations and lies start to surface, so they push the thoughts away because it hurts. Instead of facing what’s inside, they reach for noise to numb it.
I understand—it’s not easy. But I want to encourage you to press in. Learning to be still takes practice, just like anything else. Here are a few simple ways to start:
Start small. Begin with just five minutes of quiet each day. Sit, breathe, and invite the Holy Spirit to speak.
Put the phone away. Step outside without it, take a walk, or sit on the porch. Let your mind settle without reaching for distraction.
Journal what comes up. When thoughts or emotions surface, write them down instead of running from them. God often reveals truth in what we notice.You might be wondering, “How can I journal without my phone?” Simple — grab a small notebook and write it down. Sometimes the old-school way is exactly what our hearts need.
Pray through the noise. If your mind races, turn each thought into a prayer. Surrender it instead of silencing it.
Practice gratitude in stillness. Thank God for what you see, hear, and feel around you. Gratitude grounds your heart in His presence.
Rest in His Word. Meditate on one verse and let it quiet your spirit—Psalm 46:10 is a good place to start: “Be still, and know that I am God.”
Rethink your parenting in this regard.
If our kids can only fall asleep or calm down when there’s a hum in the background, what happens when life goes quiet? What happens when they need to find peace not from a sound machine, but from within—from the presence of God Himself?
It’s not that white noise is wrong; it can be helpful. But as parents, we need to pause and ask: Are we soothing, or are we teaching dependence on noise? Real rest, the kind that refreshes body and soul, begins in silence.
I am aware that white noise blocks out other sudden noises. Children get used to everything, whether it's white noise or normal everyday noise. From the outset, we decided that we wouldn't change our lives around just because we had a baby. I continued vacuuming when my baby was sleeping, having friends over and letting siblings play. We even lived in a house that was being renovated, with all the fun, sudden noises of hammers etc.
Rest assured, your baby can deal with it.
But what if white noise blocks the voice of the Holy Spirit? Not just mask household environmental noise, but also the voice of God?
This might sound intense to some of you, but stay with me. If your baby, from day one, has been trained to only sleep with white noise, then they become dependent on it. Just like a pacifier, at some point you have to wean them off. On top of that, constant white noise can interfere with natural auditory development and affect how a child learns to rest in real silence. And let’s be honest: as they grow, we tend to add even more devices to keep the noise going—tablets, music, shows, endless background sound—until quiet feels almost impossible.
Can you see how subtle it is? Someone tells you that white noise is the new “must-have” for getting babies to sleep. You’re exhausted, so you try it—and it works. Suddenly your baby is settling faster, and for the first time in ages, you feel like you can breathe. Night after night, the hum becomes part of your routine, part of theirs.
Then one day you think, Maybe we should stop using it.
But your baby is older now, and every time you try to put them down without the noise, they fuss, cry, or simply can’t settle. So you turn it back on, because you need rest, and they need sleep.
Without realizing it, something that started as a helpful tool has become the only way your child knows how to fall asleep. And now you’re wondering how to undo what quietly became a dependency.
Once they get older, you start adding other sounds. A little music during playtime. A show in the background while you cook. A tablet to keep them quiet in the car. Soon there’s always something playing—always a hum, a melody, a voice filling the space.
And before you know it, silence feels unfamiliar not just to them, but to you too. What started with a simple white-noise machine slowly becomes a lifestyle of constant sound. Not intentional, just subtle, easy, convenient. But the result is the same: a child who never truly learns how to settle their mind without noise, and a parent who rarely experiences stillness themselves.
You might be thinking, “This is a bit extreme. It’s just white noise.” And yes, right now it might only be white noise—and if it stayed there, fine. But usually it doesn’t. Just like with white noise, we keep reaching for whatever brings quick comfort. Then we add more: more sounds, more screens, more distraction.
That’s why it’s worth pausing and asking beforehand:
Is this really helpful long-term?
Will this serve my child in the future, or are there better ways to help my baby learn to sleep and find peace—without always needing noise and distraction?
So what do you do if you already started using white noise?
Don’t panic.
Here are some helpful steps:
1. Lower the volume over time
Start by turning the white noise down just a little each night. Let your baby adjust gradually so the change isn’t shocking.
2. Move the device farther away
Increase the distance from the crib. This naturally reduces the intensity and helps your baby rely less on it.
3. Shorten the duration
Instead of running it all night, try using it only for falling asleep, then switching it off or using a timer.
4. Introduce real-world sounds gently
Let your baby hear the normal sounds of a home—soft voices, footsteps, daily life. These sounds become familiar and safe.
5. Build a calming routine that isn’t noise-dependent
A consistent bedtime rhythm helps:
dim lights
gentle rocking
a short prayer
a few calming words
These things teach your child that peace comes from presence, not from noise.
6. Be patient with the process
Just like weaning from a pacifier, this takes time. Your baby will adjust, and so will you.
7. Invite God into this part of your parenting
Ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom and peace. Pray over your child as you settle them. Teach them from the earliest days that rest comes from God’s presence—not from constant sound.
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